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I've been looking for a real relationship for about ten years now and have yet to really find anything. I'm not cynical but after that amount of time, one starts to wonder if there's anyone out there, or it's just me. (I'm still hoping for the latter... at least that I can change)

My big thing is that I'm going to be 30 in less than two years, and have only been in one very toxic relationship. I would ultimately like to settle down and raise a family, but I want to start slow. (Not so slow as taking six months to find the answer to "what do you do for work" as seems to be the case of late, but not so fast as, "hi you're cute, lets fuck")

I spend a lot of time working, so I don't have a lot of time to do the whole bar scene, or local clubs, but I won't deny that they do occasionally get visited ^^;

I'm hoping to find someone who is both emotionally, mentally, and financially stable, as well as atractive in personality (which is far more important to me) as well as physically fit and healthy. I understand that there are people who will give me shit for that last statement, but I look at it this way, everyone is attracted to different aspects. For me it's more the personality and stability, and as I got older I've found that my attitude toward the physical has changed quite a bit.

I am straight, so I'd really only consider women. I am looking for -- in specific -- anyone who is between 20 and 28, though at this point age really doesn't matter as much as it used to, so long as they aren't old enough to be my mother. Anyone who would like to message me, feel free, though at this point in my life, I kinda doubt anyone will.

On a final note, I've been saying for the last three years that there is no one out there anymore, I would like to be proven wrong.

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